Most Meaningful Moment In A Marriage...

Recently, after an argument, instead of verbally apologizing, I came home to find that he had cooked dinner for me.


When I came home from a business trip and the house was completely cleaned, and all over were little notes that said "I love you." I found those notes for weeks.


How gentle, kind, and helpful my husband was when my father was dying of cancer.


The day I banged into the garage door, and his response was, "Guess it's my turn to do something dumb now."


My husband's "best man" speech at his friend's wedding. He told the couple that he wished them the happiness in their marriage that he has in his.


We had been married about six months, and I had a major toothache so bad I could not stand it. He was so concerned. He called all the dentists in the area, begging each one until he found a dentist that would see me that morning. He took the entire day off work and spent the whole day taking care of me and only me.


The day he told me I was his best friend.


One rainy afternoon, sitting on the couch -- him on one end, me on the other with our feet in the middle -- each reading a book.


Realizing that she deserves better than me and could have found a better life, but instead she picked and stayed with me.

When the World says "Give Up", Hope Whispers "Try One More Time"

Don't know what's going on with me these days.. I am so irritated with things and people around me.. I don't know why.. maybe becoz I don't take things as lightly and easily as I used to.. may be their so careless attitude irritates me.. but why.. I don't know..

I am not a perfect person and I don't seek for perfection outside my world either.. everyday I have a story to share about how so and so behaved today.. these days I am so bugged up.. life is lovely..work is fine.. enough sunshine and smiles in life.. still.. somewhere, something is wrong.. something is missing.. can't say what..

Sometimes I really wish that we could write some software which can read a person's mind..? I mean from where do we get courage to risk everything we have..? Sometimes at the name of affection.. sometimes at the name of a so called fling.. sometimes at the name of friendship.. sometimes at the name of that one moment.. we sometimes do that.. don't we.. ..How do we betray the one whom we claim to love and who loves us back.. takes a lot, no..?

I am a bit lost.. a bit thoughtful.. a bit dreamy.. a bit aloof.. a bit confused.. a bit sad and a bit smiling these days.. what about you..?

Self Indulgence...

I will get over it!!

KiSS Me In The RaiN....

Coffee has two virtues: it is wet and warm....
I like mine - hot, strong & steamy..

As Christmas and another year’s end are drawing near, I reflect upon the events that I experienced this year. Take a breather amidst the days’ flurry and count the things worth celebrating...

I DREAMT that I went to heaven and an angel was showing me around. We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels.

My guide stopped in front of the first section and said, “This is the Receiving Section. Here, we gather all the petitions to God said in prayer.” I looked around the area; it was abuzz with angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous sheets and scraps of paper from people all over the world.

Then we moved down a long corridor until we reached the second section. The angel then said: “This is the Packaging and Delivery Section. Here, the graces and blessings people ask for are processed and delivered to them.” Again, I noticed how busy the place was, with angels focused on the countless requests made by humans.

Finally, at the farthest end of the corridor, we stopped at the door of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, doing nothing. “This is the Acknowledgment Section,” my guide said softly. He seemed embarrassed.

“How is it that there’s no work going on here?” I asked. “Well,” the angel sighed, “after receiving the blessings they’ve asked for, very few people send back acknowledgments.” “How does one acknowledge God’s blessings?” “Simple. Just say, ‘Thank you, Lord’.”

“What blessings should we acknowledge?” I asked. The angel gave a quiet smile and said:

“If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and a place to sleep at night, you are richer than 75% of other people in this world.

“If you have money in the bank and your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top eight per cent of the world’s wealthy population.

“If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day.

“If you have never experienced the fear of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation, you’re ahead of 700 million people in the world.

“If you can attend a church without the fear of harassment, arrest, torture or death, you are envied by, and more blessed than, three billion people in the world.

“If your parents are alive and still married, you are extremely lucky. And if you can hold your head up daily and smile, you are unique to all those in doubt and despair.”